Looking for a guy who I can feel a mutual click/connection/chemistry with but also someone who can just hang out. I am not waiting around for a bouquet of red roses and a ring. Ok, I wouldn't turn down flowers though. As you hopefully guessed from my name I derive sexual pleasure from pain. I'm not a pain slut though. I would prefer a sexually Dominant man who is curious about spanking, hair pulling, humiliation, rough sex, dirty talk, big boobs, bondage, oral, anal, roleplaying and blindfolds among other things!! I really love sex (especially giving head!!) and prefer to meet for lunch/coffee/dinner first to see if we have chemistry.Of course, I enjoy plenty of other things also. Reading, watching movies, trying new things, going to the coast and Portland, hanging out in Eugene, etc. I love to travel. In March my friend and I went to NOLA, Alabama, Mississippi and Florida. It was incredible and I want to go back to New Orleans so badly!!! I have tattoos so if you think ink only belongs on paper... you might want to pass on me. Nothing huge or anything I can't cover with clothes but all six of them are part of me forever. I don't have s and don't want any. If you have lactation fantasies, I will not fulfill them. That's fine if you have s, but I have no urge to ever change diapers and clean chocolate syrup off my carpet.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone attractive, funny and smart to have fun in bed with! Those three qualities equal sexy to me. I HAVE to have the chemistry click because I'm super picky. Major points if you have excellent spelling and grammar skills. If you don't know the difference between to/two/too, your/you're, there/their/they're or other words...not good. No Masters or Doctorate degree required, but I prefer it when people spell out "why" and "you" among other words.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Mumford and Sons

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Ryan Gosling, George Clooney.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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