I am a tertiary educated professional who works from home. I can usually organise my time to fit in with you. I am family orientated, and have been looking after my elderly parents with Alzheimers for the past few years. My mum has just gone into aged care, so I have more head space to get out and about now. I believe that everybody is intrinsically interesting and can be fun to be with, and that there will also be something in common that can be enjoyed. The fun is discovering that. A good time can also be had by just socialising, so unless sex has been placed on the agenda at the beginning, I try not to have that at the forefront of my mind, so we can concentrate on discovering just what makes each of us tick. Having said that, physical attraction and what follows, is also (eventually) important. My work requires quite a bit of negotiating skills, so I think that gives me some social skills needed to bring out what the other person is interested in. Consequently, I also like non-competitive past-times to relax as my professional work is highly competitive I enjoy roleplaying and setting up scenes, both inside and outside the house, and believe that the anticipation and playing the parts should take place over a long period of time. I am not into violence or heavy B&D.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman close in age to myself, with similar life experiences. She should be clever and intelligent, but most importantly have a charitable, nice and open personality.

She should generally feel positive about herself, or at the least, know that, with the right circumstances, she can be, and any lows are just part of the journey of life that can change from day to day.