I'm articulate, perceptive, skilled, and patient. I take as much pleasure in giving pleasure as receiving it; in short I'm a kind and generous lover. I'm big on communicating, both because it helps me understand who you are and what you want, and because it's necessary if we are going to make arrangements, assuming we get that far. If you can't hold a conversation I'm not sure we willl get along. I am a take charge kind of guy, though I'm not interested in telling you what to do. I'll happily give you suggestions but I'm going to expect you to make your own decisions. I get along best with people who take ownership of what they say and do. I make a point of not being pushy and I won't pester you. If you don't reply after I've sent you more than one message then I'll move on. It takes two to tango. As for being satisfied by only reading about it, that doesn't work for me. I enjoy corresponding and have done a lot of it, but I'm not here for pen pals and cybersex doesn't do it for me. So if you don't want to meet in person then I'm not your man. It is the human touch that I seek.

My Ideal Person I want to connect with interesting people who would rather communicate, meet, participate, and do than dream, watch, or read. I know trust has to be built and that anyone worth knowing isn't likely to jump in bed immediately. Are you willing to take a little risk and be responsive when you receive a message? The compelling experiences in life go to those who engage.