Having been in a somewhat stale relationship for several years which recently ended, I have become frustrated. A major factor in this is the lack of decent quality sex alongside the absolute joy that is female company. It is the duality of sex that I crave and which continues to fascinate me. I want, on the one hand, to respond to a lustful desire to make wild, passionate love to a woman on a regular basis and to act out my fantasies, but then later, on the other, to have that same said woman fall asleep in my arms allowing me to cradle her. I want to make clear that I'm not looking for ANYTHING other than an NSA type relationship with straight women who I can also befriend and have fun with. Therefore, NO commitments and NO thoughts of a long term relationship. All I want is some fun, friendship and sex with straight women. It's flattering to be approached by gay men, married women looking to have me join in on threesomes or to fuck them whilst their husband watches, or by transsexuals, but this really isn't my cup of tea; nor for that matter is ANYTHING involving the infliction of pain, humiliation, or the exchange of bodily fluids. Please don't bother contacting me if this is what you're seeking as you will be be sorely disappointed. For what it's worth, my two real passions are ladies in lingerie and boobs. Call me conventional if you must, but silk stockings, suspender belts, basques and corsets really do for me; alongside a pair of killer high heel shoes. Better still, if the lady concerned is well endowed. Like most straight men, I greatly appreciate women dressing up like this so ladies, if this is something you enjoy doing for a very appreciative audience and it has the effect of making you feel both feminine and sexy, do please get in contact. Absolute discretion is essential. I will treat any and all meetings with any women I meet via this site with complete confidentiality. Insofar as I have any expectations, it is that this be reciprocated. Please do not read too much into this as there is nothing Machiavellian or dishonest about me asking for this. I am not in some sort relationship where I am seeking to maintain the fact that I use websites such as this one a secret nor am I married. My wish for confidentiality stems from the fact that for reas I don't entirely understand, much of our society has a very confused attitude to the use of sex contacts websites such as this one and thus tends to regard them negatively. Such attitudes profoundly annoy me and frankly I don't want the hassle that this produces - hence this request. If having contacted me you then don't inspire me with confidence as to your ability to adhere to my request for our meetings to remain confidential, you won't be hearing from me again. If I've managed through writing this description of myself and my interests to get your attention, then get in contact and we can chat further. I'm going to insist upon a facial picture. No picture, no reply. Please, no time wasters, and no text speak either. The latter really annoys me and is demonstrative of either laziness or illiteracy. If you can't construct a proper sentence or aren't bothered to do so, I'm unlikely to be interested. I should also say straight off that I'm turned off completely by tattoos (however discreet), smokers, and Daily Mail Readers and members of The Tory Party. Anyone fulfilling this criteria or engaging in these traits will be ignored. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

My Ideal Person Ok, ideally you're in your late 20s, to early 30s, are educated to postgraduate level, are left leaning, you enjoy the theatre, jazz and blues music, are interested in science and philosophy as well as literature, adore wearing lingerie - especially silk stockings and satin suspender belts, have shoulder length blonde hair and are passionate about anal sex.

I do realise of course that I am extremely unlikely to meet a woman that meets all these aspirations but the question that was asked was what is your "ideal" woman and the woman I've just described is just that.