[COLOR crim]Hello! Thanks for stopping by. I know too much of anything isn't good, so I'll be brief. I am a recently separated woman... I have no relationship baggage... I have some grown ren issues, but who doesn't? Lol! I work hard, play hard and I'll die on my own terms and I won't have a single regret when I go! I'm a published writer of poetry, ren's stories and yes... Erotica. I love to shoot 8 ball, I am a Nascar fanatic, love air shows, travel and fast cars! I drive a 2014 Hemi Challenger, and like me...she goes from 0--135 in 12 seconds without being in Sport Mode Lol![/COLOR] All I hope for is a really honest, sexually active man who treats a woman as a lady, isn't abusive, isn't afraid of women, and will let me know up front if the relationship isn't what he wants or he's looking for and walks away before he looks for something else. That is called...respect. And it speaks miles about a per and their integrity. Oh...If you don't know how to color outside of the lines sexually, or if you like missionary simple hum drum sex...count me out! I may not be able to hang from a chandelier, but honey, if you wanna ride my ass... You damn well better be pulling my hair! Lol! Haven't had sex in almost a year, so if you're invited in, you better be ready! And this is on the SERIOUS Side... If you are younger than 45 years old... Please do not contact me. I only have 1 rule I live by religiously. Never have sex with ANYONE Young enough to be your ! And man... I mean it!

My Ideal Person SORRY... I DO NOT MEAN ANY DISRESPECT AT ALL TOWARDS MEN, BUT I JUST HAVE TO SAY THIS! AND THIS IS JUST MY PERSONAL OPINION... The worst profiles I see online, are the ones where men have photos of their self naked for their profile picture. REALLY? Come on now... You haven't got anything different from any other man unless it's 13 Inches or more! I feel the same way about women who show their them selves naked.

It isn't WHAT YOU HAVE that makes a woman want you. It's all about your "Swag"! It's about Charisma, style, confidence, and sexuality. Being naked won't help you. And what is there to be a pleasant surprise if you're lucky enough to get a woman's attention? There is no mystery, because the whole Internet world already has your picture! LOL!

I'm looking for a Devastatingly handsome man! Lol! Isn't that what all women want? Lol! I want a Goddamned MAN! Someone who can wear a suit and owns it, as well as a tight pair of jeans that hug his ass and he knows it.

I want a man who is independent, financially secure, hard working, and hard playing and easy on the eyes! Sexually out of the box, isn't afraid to go outside the lines when coloring, and wants a partner to be the same. I want to have a good time with someone and it doesn't mean we're committed. I want a man who wants to be with someone on a day to day basis, and not worry about tomorrow for Christ's Sake. I want a man who if he's with me...he's with me... And if he wants something else, can tell me that first...look later please.

I am a published writer, and oh.,.. I am a BDSM Slave. Have been for 30+ years. I'm not sure I want to step back into that life again, but if you're into vanilla missionary sex, count me out! I may be too old to swing from chandeliers these days, but Sex has to be extreme to bring out the best of us most of the time!.My stories are published on Alt.com magazine. Just search for Ladylee1.

So with all that being said, and if you think you can fill the list of things I seek, let me know...[/COLOR

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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