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spoldrtn812 58 F
17  Articles
Online Dating precaution.   8/25/2007

We are here to meet but we (particularly women) must employ safety measures. Even then we can only be so safe how do we know the information is honest until we meet and interact for awhile?

I'm not going to bash him because maybe he just doesn't know, But, here's another online dating NO-NO
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0 Comments, 93 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Chatting Online!   8/24/2007

Chatting Online! Do you think chatting online with members on this site creates jealousy when responding to questions, blogs and articles?


14 Comments, 173 Views, 46 Votes ,1.30 Score
rm_Cinr 55 M
3  Articles
Slut Training   8/7/2007

I have recently been offered the services of a hot slut for one on one sex or a gang bang. I would need about five guys to satisfy her but am unsure as to how to find and screen them so she gets what she wants but is not in any danger. Does anyone have any advice please?


3 Comments, 165 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rhnewguy 54 M
1  Article
Trust   7/26/2007

How do some of you make others feel comfortable about meeting face to face?


1 Comments, 73 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
skyline31231 63 M
17  Articles
afternoon at an adult theater   6/30/2007

I had a free afternoon, and decided to see what was going on at the adult theatre. I paid for my admission and stepped and had my cock in hand) There was an orgy going on the screen, into the darkness. I was standing in the back, waiting for my eyes to adjust to the light. The usual crowd was there, very aggressively trying to get a feel. I decided to forgo them, and slowly walked toward the ...


3 Comments, 428 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
potbelliedman 46 M
13  Articles
A safety tip for ladies   6/22/2007

Your voice is one of your best assets should you ever find yourself in trouble. I've studied and taught martial arts for years both at large facilities, and one on one private lessons. Recently in the KC area a young girl was abducted from a TARGET parking lot, and murdered. The abduction is caught on TARGET security cameras, and is shown to happen very quickly. I've had several ladies at work ...


4 Comments, 152 Views, 11 Votes ,6.53 Score
What do yout hink?   6/22/2007

Where is the best place for the first meeting?


2 Comments, 57 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
coffee dates are the best   5/27/2007

its always best to meet somewhere public before going into the bedroom you always need to be careful since you never know who you will end up with also i would bring along a friend to help out in case something goes and takes a shape left turn again you never know whos what even in a small town


4 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
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2 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes
Posting Information And Photos Safely!   5/4/2007

Please don't take offense to these suggestions, they are simply ideas to provide a safety cushion while trying to meet someone online.

Regarding Information: You should always be truthful about your physical appearance, marital status, sexual likes and dislikes, sexual preference, gender, and what you are hoping to fullfill by meeting someone on AdultFriendFinder or any personal profile, chat room, ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Never Assume the Person On The Other End Of The Computer Is Who Or What They Say They Are!   5/4/2007

Before you panic, please take the title in context. I am not insinuating that everyone on web sites, chat rooms, or personals are lying. Clearly there are several levels of distortion pertaining to identity. Below I break done individuals by categories that I created. I estimated percentages in each category based on publications, media reports, personal research data, and interviews with ...


2 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
Jazmine101 27 F
2  Articles
Meeting People   4/8/2007

When meeting people please make sure you have a updated photograph of who u are... This one particular guy I met would not show his face on cam.. He sent me a picture.. The picture seemed attractive to me. I talked to this individual on the phone, it went ok... But he gave me a weird feeling even for me... I asked two other peoples opinion, and they heard this person on the phone and both agreed ...


3 Comments, 217 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_Infernus46 37 M
5  Articles
Older men   3/12/2007

From my experience, a lot of older men generally don't care about consent. It's best to carry pepper spray when you go to bars that have a lot of them around, or if you decide to date one. Though, I don't know why you'd want to do that.


3 Comments, 153 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
i love to make a lover one   3/9/2007

hello this joejim i like to make a lover one from this site and i will like to hear feed back from you very soon raymon419...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
RVAfuckbuddy 43 M
3  Articles
hmmm...   1/28/2007

is it bad to meet women you've never talked to on the phone?


0 Comments, 74 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
First meeting   1/25/2007

Once you have made contact with someone, don't jump into anything. Send a few e-mails to find out somethings and then, if you want, make a date to meet for coffee or lunch. Someplace public. If you meet and don't click, leave and cut off contact. If you do click, fuck your brains out and don't look back!


5 Comments, 133 Views, 11 Votes ,6.53 Score
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
Dating safety and AdultFriendFinder's policies.   1/4/2007

I just thought I would tell my story. I come here once in awhile when I wanna have a little fun. Maybe meet someone new. I pretty much remain annonymous. I don't have much time for dating. Anyway. Mostly, I chat. The other nite, someones handle caught my eye and I looked at the profile and saw he was near by. So I said hi in the chat and we thru a few back and forth. Thing ...


4 Comments, 389 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
lvrgrl2000 49 F
1  Article
how to?   1/2/2007

how do you practice safe sex while engaging in oral sex of a man? Edible condoms aren't a good idea since they desolve? Any suggestions?


2 Comments, 206 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
rm_breezeboy3 50 M
2  Articles
public place   12/16/2006

if meetin for the first time i always make sure it, s in a public place ie a park or a busy pub that way u feel safe


2 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
tips   11/15/2006

has anyone any tips for first timers?


1 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
glad im a man   11/9/2006

2 the women on the site. as a man i would feel comfortable goin 2 any meet, and im not tryin 2 say u dont know how 2 look after urselves, but if ur meetin someone do you worry more about u safety than the men.


1 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
safety   11/4/2006

How do you trust someone?


0 Comments, 27 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
bubb4363 55 M
6  Articles
what about the age difference   10/24/2006

have you ever dated someone much older than you. how did you feel about it, and would you consider a long time commitement, with a older mate.


1 Comments, 108 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
rm_rebelgirl_26 44 F
10  Articles
To wait or not to wait? How many dates does it take to get laid?   9/18/2006

This is an age old question. I believe it depends on the person you chose to date. For her/him, it their on hang ups if they put a time limit on having sex with a person. It should just happen naturally. My personal feeling is I would like to be tested (STDs) with the person and if and when we both come back clean. I like to give and receive so I do not want any surprises. After the ...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
nostrngzatall 43 M
11  Articles
safety   9/17/2006

what are your general safety tips? i dint know there were safety tips! i thought you just have fun!


1 Comments, 113 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_jmwilen 40 C
7  Articles
meeting   9/16/2006

It can become tricky arranging to meet for the first time and it's always best to be cautious. We advise you try and get to know someone for a while online before you meet, make it clear what you're both/all after and when it's time meet in a public place like a pub or resturaunt.


0 Comments, 68 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
Winterzknight 46 M
8  Articles
Taking it slow, when the body wants to move fast   8/16/2006

Probably the most difficult thing about online sex sites is the notion of taking things slow - in order to get to know someone - when your body is sending a different signal. Let's face it, sometimes our baser instincts not only try to get the better of us - sometimes they do. All the more reason to make the conscious effort to take it slow when jumping into the world of online dating and ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
ThickDrkChoclat 47 C
4  Articles
Remember   8/13/2006

When meeting someone for the first time always meet in a public place.


0 Comments, 58 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
steveislooking1 55 M
7  Articles
Where and How to Meet   7/31/2006

Let someone know where you are going, with whom you are going to meet, and what time you are expected back. Make sure to have a time by which you should contact your friend to let him/her know that you are back home safe.
Always meet in public places for the first time. Never park your car in an isolated place - park in the middle of a lot near a light and near other cars, ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
torq6968 66 C
1  Article
Meeting for the first time, what has worked for us   7/19/2006

Meeting someone for the first time can be a bit scary. Espically for the ladies of this site. Yes, even for some of the guys, too.
We have met a large amount of people thru AdultFriendFinder. When we started meeting people, we did most of it at a bowling center. yup, that is right. It helped that we are bowlers, tho. As a married couple, we are together all the time. So, any single guys ...


3 Comments, 234 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score