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meeting others  

CDpetite 54T
7 posts
7/17/2018 9:48 am
meeting others


I wanted to create a place where cd/ts/tv/tg along with men and women can meet in a private discreet setting and put that in my profile but it seems like i get 99% men contacting me that don't read my profile or ignore it's contents and under the assumption that being a member on this site automatically sends a message that everyone here just meets anyone that contacts them. not sure how successful they are just asking anyone they find attractive to to just hook up and have sex without knowing anything about them and of course there are the ones that want to meet without any relative info on their profile or even having a pic on their profile. It tells me that there is the assumption that all cd/ts/tv/tg are seen as whores or sex starved and will take anything that comes along regardless of what they look like or their personality.
It appears the "me society" is predominant on this website and and could care less about what anyone else wants or is interested in as long as they get theirs for free with no effort and almost like a narcissistic approach that all cd/ts/tv/tg should just be happy they get someone wanting to have sex with them.

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/17/2018 10:02 am

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My comment here will serve its purpose, but put the first comment by yourself next time when you post your blog posts,. It will make your blog post to show up in the "Recently Posts". Otherwise, your post will never show up amywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs. So much for writing a blog post, but no one notice, right?

This first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special, people just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too.

There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to go to other bloggers' post, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to mingle and reciprocate!

And if you are a santadard member, you can set up a private inbox, so even if you can't communicate with other members though mails, you still can communicate though your blogs.

Happy blogging, and let us know if you have any other questions in regards to the blogs, we are happy to assist you.


DrKinkmanGYN 70M
66 posts
7/22/2018 5:22 pm

You wrote: "It tells me that there is the assumption that all cd/ts/tv/tg are seen as whores or sex starved and will take anything that comes along regardless of what they look like or their personality. ...almost like a narcissistic approach that all cd/ts/tv/tg should just be happy they get someone wanting to have sex with them."

Don't take it personally. We all get the same stupid remarks from members. There are a lot of assholes on here. What amazes me are the ones with no info or pics and they want to correspond with others. Fucking idiots that would never show up anyway if you invited them. They don't have the nerve to post a pic, never mind have a fling.


Pascofun2234 64T

8/28/2018 7:52 am

Its much better to at least carry on a coherent conversation once or twice before meeting someone. Hopefully, it'll help weed out the ones that want to take and not give. Its best we all involved are giving and receiving somehow. That way each person walks away with some benefit from meeting.


Ianpoman 79M  
83 posts
10/14/2018 1:18 am

I enjoyed your intro, blog, video, photos. You are a very interesting, intelligent person, nicely endowed between the ears and temptingly between the legs. Without sexpectations I'd enjoy getting acquainted and accept where it goes.


allinfunn8888 65T
22 posts
11/2/2019 3:05 pm

with time and patience it works i do very well


KrystalH52 64T

1/17/2020 3:28 pm

How can I talk to you cdpetite


CDCougar69 58T
4 posts
2/1/2020 7:59 am

As a like minded gurl I share your frustrations... but don't lose heart. There are plenty of assholes on here, but I have also hooked up with a few guys (and other gurls) with whom I've had some of the most intense sex of my life. My only real frustration is that I have limited opportunities to hook up with them again even though we keep in touch.

Take the good with the bad, just remember to listen to that 'inner voice' if it tells you if something feels ' not right' or unsafe.


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