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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/3/2018 10:04 am

Yes, there are very few members in my area.

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Funguy13916 67M
40 posts
5/3/2018 10:40 am

One never knows who is to shy to reveal themselves. As for me, I would like to know somebody like that because I have the patience to allow them to grow. It's like not having fourplay to build.


windsjohn 72M  
798 posts
5/3/2018 10:41 am

I read most of them to see if they might be someone who might fit my criteria.


Apollorising2057 63M

5/3/2018 12:07 pm

No!

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dpguy1957 67M  
501 posts
5/3/2018 12:17 pm

I used to have a pic(s) on my profile till a woman on here who lived nearby threatened to post it everywhere in town. if someone requests a photo, and we've corresponded to the point that i trust them, i gladly supply one or more.


disago 54M

5/3/2018 12:17 pm

I really dig reading a well written profile. And one gem that I might find simply by headline, username or just 'feeling it', instead of the visual, well, it's like finding that super cool lamp at a thrift shop.

...I like lamp.


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
5/3/2018 12:54 pm

Yes I do. Don't have one of me so wouldn't be fair if I said they have to have one. I rather no picture then the @$$hole showing me his damn dick or him getting oral or his ass.

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If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


yorugua3460 43M

5/3/2018 1:48 pm

no


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
5/3/2018 1:58 pm

Nope... never.

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
5/3/2018 4:11 pm

Not at all. Must be a real photo or photos.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

5/3/2018 4:18 pm

Being more of a beggar than a chooser, there being so few straight women in the area that I live in, I pay attention to all profiles.

A picture is information about the person I potentially want to know, but I am not on the site for the picture but to meet the person as unrealistic as that might be.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


LoneLee87x 36M
10 posts
5/3/2018 5:14 pm

I at least talk to the person some to gauge what kind of person they are


sogoodfeelin 54M
21 posts
5/4/2018 5:31 am

I do as i know some people are like me and need to keep this side very discrete.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
5/4/2018 6:23 am

LEt's just say I'm very visually oriented.

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aniceride 53M  
117 posts
5/4/2018 9:58 am

weather there's a picture or not doesn't matter to me,what matters is how well or much did they fill out the profile.if there's not much there i just move on even if they try to contact me.most of the time when they do contact me with nothing in their profile it's normally a one liner email like "hey you wanna fuck" lol.the way i look at it is if you have nothing in your profile it shows a lack of respect,this isn't a porn site.these are for the most part actual people on this site looking to fill a need.i mean really,would you walk up to someone on the street and say hey you wanna fuck,i think not lol.so lets have a little respect for yourself and others and fill the darn profile out!also for gods sake be honest about it!there are all types of people on this site so you shouldn't have a problem finding something that fits you.okay my book comes out next week lmao.


Freeonereturns 63F

5/4/2018 11:08 am

Sometimes I do, it's about the same as someone that lives far away so what are the real chances. That said its not aways with a meet in mind, you would be very limited here if that is all you seek. It's not about numbers here for me, I'm not sure if that put be in the minority or majority. It is what it is and how I like it either way.


ohioguy606 77M  
326 posts
5/4/2018 11:30 am

I try to be discreet and therefore don't post a pic. Will send one or cam after we have chatted. Hasn't hindered things so far.....


fkmeallnitelong9 53F  
2586 posts
5/4/2018 12:59 pm

I look at all profiles....some have ''shadow face'' BUT have pics on their profile...you don't know if you don't look....


rm_cucv1009 56M

5/4/2018 1:36 pm

Never


kentkouple1 45M/42F

5/4/2018 1:59 pm

rarely look at profiles without a pic, or with the same pic 3 times and profiles that say they are in aldershot (sorry people that actually live in aldershot)


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/4/2018 2:38 pm

I rarely read profiles, I prefer to talk with a person and form my own opinion before I read what they profess to be. We can't be objective anyway , so all those attributes that are claimed, should be said by our partners, not us. So yes, I'm only a standard member, but when I do get the chance to see profiles , it makes no difference to me....photo or not. People need to ask , why is a photo necessary? Is it going to have u stop talking to the person, or talk differently to a person. Photos have a way of over or underwhelming ....lol .....the viewer, which also precludes getting to know a person from the inside out. Me ? I have no photos due to being in a school district.


Pussycumwanker 53M

5/4/2018 3:06 pm

Yes I do ..............some people get sick of the bullshit and remove photos but leave the lingering one liners .....intrigue is a wonderful thing , hope is another x

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SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
5/4/2018 3:57 pm

Nope not one bit... I did in the past but never received a response and figure those are just women looking for their husbands/boyfriends, or males pretending to be women or just seeing what other males write... one of the nonsense suggestions from relationship “exspurts”


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
5/4/2018 4:15 pm

I find most photo deficient profiles quite funny actually, I live in a sprawling, ever expanding metropolitan area of well over a million people, where it’s rare to read a profile of more than a few sentences as if that would be enough to be identified. Rarely are there women’s profiles that convey that there is more to the woman than just boobs and genitalia in need of attention. Any wonder you only attract dick heads?


fandral2006 60M
14 posts
5/4/2018 6:57 pm

I voted no. I like to see at least 60 percent of the person to see if there's some attraction. No photo means no idea.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
5/4/2018 9:02 pm

Sometimes, really depends on what's in the profile.

If it's blank like the photo, PASS !!!!


dig76301 65M  
126 posts
5/5/2018 3:55 am

No I don't. Should be a rule you have to post at least one picture. It doesn't have to be of your face, but have something posted. And no more than Three prefer not to say.


acutabove42 59M

5/5/2018 7:01 am

Sometimes ......... if they are obviously new I will often say 'Hi' and welcome particularly if they are localish.


shooter304 63M
34 posts
5/5/2018 8:43 am

I say no, a pic can be of any body part or part of the body but at least you have made an effort. I also enjoy the pix people post.


lookingtoplay145 66M
128 posts
5/5/2018 12:18 pm

So far, I have meet more fake, bullshit conversations with pictures then none. I understand starting with no picture and only sharing with those who seem real.


ShoreCiti 59M
11 posts
5/5/2018 1:43 pm

My cupid matches are set for profiles with pics but if someone local checks me out, maybe. If they flirt, hotlist or message me, then yes, I will strike up a conversation. Some people are shy.

That said, my profile has a pic of my feet, so it's not too hard to do this.

So far, though, every scammer has had at least one pic.


Tony110392 53M
2 posts
5/5/2018 2:42 pm

Generally I won't. But if they are close and have an interesting profile, sometimes I will.


Pussycumwanker 53M

5/5/2018 3:30 pm

    Quoting kentkouple1:
    rarely look at profiles without a pic, or with the same pic 3 times and profiles that say they are in aldershot (sorry people that actually live in aldershot)
Ah Aldershot rings a bell x

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metalmanliks666 44M

5/5/2018 4:54 pm

Im not a shallow piece of shit who needs to know what someone looks like just to have a conversation with them. I understand there are people who like the anonymity and not having tgeir face plastered on a site like this for everybody to see. It could affect your work or maybe they just don't want people who know them to see they are using a site like this, especially if they are from a small community.
Now before a meetup is arranged then a photo is required from both sides so we can see if we are each others type. I'm not opposed to sharing my photo but I will in instant messenger or email or text. I'm one of those people who enjoys my privacy on sites like this. I'd never hook up with some lady in my area that I happen to know and I know a lot of people in my community and they know me.
As a matter of fact, I've chatted with many ladies who didn't have a pic on their profile but they shared pics privately and many times they are very attractive. I can say that at least a 6 without profile pics was the person in the picture that they privately sent me because I met up with them and went down on them. Just because we don't have a profile pic does not automatically mean we're fat, ugly, fake, cheating. I'm 38 and people can't believe I'm over 30, mountain bike thousands of miles every year, coach youth hockey and play adult hockey against 18-25 year olds aand can still handle my own and keep up with those young guys and girls who play. I'm not all hung up on looks so I don't how I appear to the opposite sex, but I notice younger and older ladies "check me out" and often times smile or say hi. The ladies I've netfixed and chilled with are good looking so I don't think I'm ugly. Lol so I guess if you people who don't look at profiles without pics, maybe one is getting past you?


rdsville 54M

5/5/2018 5:59 pm

If the person is close and they sound interesting I will read their profile.


joeyten 69M
10 posts
5/6/2018 3:25 am

I voted no.. nor do I pay attention to profiles with dick pics or dicks with pussys, I don't want to see that shit. Men in Shorts I find a turn on.


4meovr40 62M
15 posts
5/6/2018 10:05 am

Yes if there is something that grabs my attention.


Strongsensual19 38M
25 posts
5/6/2018 12:43 pm

It depends if you can hold a conversation.


bigthing663 53M

5/6/2018 12:59 pm

off course, sometimes there is a diamond in the rough


Mgforfun57 54M

5/6/2018 9:23 pm

I am very open on this site and I feel members who don’t show some kind of photo is trying to hide something!


Aldemars13 53M
72 posts
5/7/2018 3:20 am

The photos are not everything ... I think there are a lot of fake photos on some profiles, but by talking with people, you can better get an idea of these .....


kenoshamale 57M  
20 posts
5/7/2018 5:56 am

If the profile is local and something in the profile catches my attention, It will not matter if they have a pic. I will try and start a conversation with them.


2017Up4You 56M  
165 posts
5/7/2018 7:18 am

Yes, if the profile is within about one hours drive and they are HWP and under 60 yrs. old...afterall, many folks here are here to secretly make a connection and do not want to share with the "world" their personal quest!


browser2017 62M
118 posts
5/7/2018 9:03 am

I pay more attention to what is written


dwwd4fun 50M

5/7/2018 1:27 pm

Profiles can tell a lot. Like to be intrigued by their thoughts and ideas before seeing their pics


SummerDances 48M
23 posts
5/7/2018 2:05 pm

Not usually. I understand the need for discretion and privacy, but there is always a work around. A picture of their shoes or shadow, or recently used sex toy are some options. For me a lack of profile pic shows a lack of creativity and confidence, two things which really turn me on.

If if if they live very close by and shoot me a very interesting IM then I might chat back.


utfrangrl 49F
267 posts
5/7/2018 3:21 pm

I prefer profiles with photos.


albanynycouple51 63M/57F  
23 posts
5/7/2018 8:16 pm

want too see self pics 4 interest


AD12663 57M

5/8/2018 4:05 am

I have met someone before without seeing a photo. We talked back and forth for sometime and then I met her at her house three seperate times for sex and it was very pleasing for both of us. If they want to show me a photo that is fine but most of the photos are of cocks and asses so I don't see how that shows you the person.


tongueteaseH 42M
10 posts
5/8/2018 11:27 am

Photos can be a nice addition but it has to start with something enticing. I'm still amused at the occasional photo where you feel like you're trying to guess the body part.


Timetraveler2 60M  
159 posts
5/8/2018 1:14 pm

I read the profile, and base my desire to contact a person by how they express themselves. I would prefer no picture to one that is a close up of their crotch.


funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
5/8/2018 2:23 pm

nope and single guys cant read


kjm63 60M

5/8/2018 8:59 pm

I will read the profile and if it looks good I'll read it and decide


stax51170 53M  
33 posts
5/8/2018 10:34 pm

I don't pay attention to profile without pics because most of the profiles without photo are fakes fishing for emails of members. If the profile doesn't take the time to fill out the rest to of the questions. then the no pic is not going to be truthful with it intent for being on AdultFriendFinder. profile with are not better because they can be fake too. Bottomline if they are not going to make an effort on any level then it is not my effort to do the same to chat and get to know.


neglectedcock3 54M

5/9/2018 6:32 am

I find it funny that people say people with pics are real, so what they say in their profile must be real also. Come on people. Pictures can be fakes as well and so can what they write as a profile. It's a crap shoot no matter what.


cumboi65 72M

5/9/2018 7:47 pm

Always read profiles to see if we are compatible. Of course a nice picture draws my attention.


Tightestgrip1978 46F
2 posts
5/10/2018 12:24 am

I make it very clear on my profile if you do not have a picture then do not email me. If you email me then you better send a picture with it. If you have a lot to hide maybe you should not be on this site. I live in a small town.


whynotfuckme123 64M

5/10/2018 10:31 am

I have profile pics up and am up front. I do find it interesting how many women put in their profile" Will not respond to profile without a picture" But don't have a pic themselves! Or will not respond to dick pic and only have pussy pic themselves.


60satisfaction 66M

5/10/2018 1:51 pm

Why bother? If a person can't post a single photo, what are they hiding?


joewantssub 53M
38 posts
5/10/2018 1:52 pm

Most of the female profiles in the UK without pics are actually male Dick heads masquerading as females ~^~


ToriB2 45F  
1 post
5/10/2018 2:19 pm

to me they are either fake, or they hiding somthing so i wont talk or interact with anyone that has no profile picture


bdbg74 56M/50F

5/11/2018 2:48 pm

Nope


Saranghae2 52F
206 posts
5/11/2018 2:52 pm

yes, i do. if they write an email that i click with and if they are local...

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curiousparty1234 38M
8 posts
5/11/2018 5:09 pm

If they send me a well crafted message I'll usually reply. I've been finding more and more bots on the chat that are starting to message me from another province with a big long paragraph that includes an outbound link.

And then if they've an interesting profile I'll message as well. I know the want for discreet meetings is strong so I post as few public photos of myself (that include defining features such as face, hands, and scars) as possible, reserving those for people I click with for meetings.


jay1446 67M
40 posts
5/11/2018 6:43 pm

It's all about location for me if there's no picture and there close by I pay bit alot of attention


bisexualcharle69 59M

5/12/2018 1:29 am

I am curious to see what they look like and I really do care about looks but I do like people who r real


camgroup10 39M/41M
28 posts
5/12/2018 5:39 pm

it was worth a chance back in the day..now not so much


atveffect 47M  
59 posts
5/13/2018 5:57 pm

you mean like yours


funasianma1e 49M
11551 posts
5/13/2018 10:43 pm

sometimes. just out of curiosity.

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Pwm9073 62M
17 posts
5/15/2018 1:53 am

Yes because i generally will read profile i sometime will hide or take my pic off occasionally


truckfun2005 58M
8 posts
5/16/2018 4:12 am

pictures are great but not important at first


DiscreetAffairPA 47M
214 posts
5/16/2018 1:15 pm

It depends on if the rest of the profile has any depth to it or not. One-liners, then no. If there's an explanation for the lack of photo, I might look. Many of us don't want our faces on here.


waynekelso123 48M

5/20/2018 1:10 pm

i like my privacy too...


moonie12556 67M

5/20/2018 9:42 pm

Sure! I looked at yours!.lol
Seriously though I met someone with no pic and she was actually very good looking and we had a few good meets.


Jvalen257 34M

6/3/2018 6:59 pm

I alway watch all tinggoin on around me


mdkh6 38M

6/9/2018 3:45 am

I think it's silly to not have at least a profile pic.


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
6/15/2018 3:04 am

I guess i like to read what a person put into their profile, because seeing a pic doesn't mean it is that person you see in the pic, I don't have face pics, if I have a connection with someone then I send a face pic, I don't think people are always being shy or fake, I think they are being cautious about blasting their face pic on a public web site.


fun4all4one 69M
20 posts
6/16/2018 2:51 am

It could be part of the excitement not knowing sometimes


JeffXcitedNow 69M
282 posts
6/18/2018 11:43 pm

I read all profiles, which includes looking at the pics included....I didn't have a pic for first 6 months or so as a member this time around (member previously 12 or so years ago); so I can understand why some pple don't have pics...{=}{=}
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letschataboutit9 61M

7/2/2018 6:40 am

Sure I do. Nothing wrong with chatting before you swap pictures.


bker4ever 65M  
269 posts
7/4/2018 2:59 pm

a pic always helps


rwe2014 42M

7/5/2018 9:54 pm

For me, something needs to be there. This is a social site, but if you are doing something on the side, or worried about being seen then you do you. If I get messaged by someone without a profile picture I may answer if something is filled out on the profile.

It's hard enough to get attention from someone you're interested in on this site, not going through hoops with someone that I don't know what they look like at the start.


sassywanda 71T
2 posts
7/7/2018 6:32 am

I will and will chat and if there is an interest i will ask questions and ask to see a photo and not a nude one.I want to see the person as he/she is normally dressed.If not willing to show me a photo or 2 then i discontinue the conversation and move on.


illicit100 80M

7/11/2018 1:18 pm

Pics can cum later after we chat


Kid3TD 32M

7/13/2018 12:01 pm

Some people are just nervous but it would be better to have a real pic of you and like was said earlier use the site to the fullest. better responses I think


SpeadtheLove 64M

7/16/2018 11:46 pm

What comes to mind with a person that does not have a photo is privacy concerns. Some people are married or in a committed relationship, or perhaps, lives in a small town. So, yes, I read all profiles.


navyvet1677 46M

7/19/2018 9:29 am

I do. I respect the privacy. if you get to know them you will get pictures sent privately.


Bighammmerdave 39M

7/19/2018 11:00 am

So far every message I’ve had from a profile with no picture has been a scam


_IKanCu2_ 105M

7/20/2018 12:03 am

You opened Your eye*z this morning, and You will again tomorrow.
What will You see ? Have You planned anything first off what You WANT to see ? ,,, or just see what present*z itself .

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Hardone371970 53M
12 posts
7/22/2018 12:09 pm

Usually not. Yes beauty is only skin deep. But if you can’t see anything the question that comes to mind is why. I will respond if they IM see what they are interested in and if. We have some similarities then ask for a picture.


tantric_chakra 46M

7/23/2018 10:51 pm

By no photo, I assume you mean no photo of themselves at all. Not even a body part. Well, I don't pay attention unless they have a well written bio so I can get a sense of them.


shysub2018 62M

7/24/2018 1:25 pm

if it's me


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
7/27/2018 9:23 am

Usually no unless they have a nice bio or if they contact me with a face pic in the message

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redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
7/27/2018 5:23 pm

A picture is always a bonus, however, not a necessity. Most of the people I chat with are from the blogs or from my local chat room. Some are people I have met from local events which I attend as well. So even if they do not have a profile picture I usually have a sense of the type of person they are.

For anyone else who contacts me, picture or no picture, I require respect. Without that I have no interest.


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