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Billygoat144 57M

7/17/2018 3:12 pm

 Peace out, sister!!!


Apollorising2057 63M

7/17/2018 3:36 pm

 I met my current wife in 2007 and have been happy ever since with her but before that in 2003 to 2007 I was dating, and meeting women but until I luckily met my wife I thought they were all a little nuts!
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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/17/2018 3:46 pm

 It's kind of interesting the different "types" of guy's you've met. I've only met 14 (IIRC) women from this site and I try to screen them to avoid contact with the less than desirable personalities. I think I've mostly succeeded especially after the first couple meets which were not so great.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


mc_justmc 63M

7/17/2018 4:46 pm

 I had to go back and reread your previous post. I didn't hear anything that deserved any kind of harsh reaction from your readers. I have met some freaks on this site and bitched loud and clear about them. Someone told me once: "those aren't bad meets, those are new posts". I now know why I was as successful as I was, I thought I was special, turns out, I was just normal. I'd have my vagina sewn shut if I was a woman and met that those freaks. I had a date with the woman's version of the "What's Your name Again". I could have grabbed her purse and walked out of the restaurant long before she noticed I was gone and never identified me because her eyes were everywhere in the restaurant except where I was, and I love it when they flirt with the wait staff, but not with you.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
7/17/2018 6:18 pm

 I can honestly say I believe I am not in any of those types (I hope), but I often fit into the last, the guy women once they meet me, want to invite me into intimacy if not more! But, I suspect there are more catagories/types you havnt listed there, and I must fit into one of those, because my 1st dates far out nmber my 2nd dates ! In my profiles on sites, I try to be as up front as I can be. I also am open to answering damm near any questions too. I do have one catagory/type I could add to your list that would apply to both men as well as women. The Guys/Gals you cannot Google or find online aside from the dating site profiles. Now I DO fall into THAT catagory, and if you have read previous comments made by me, you may understand why, but the real truth is there are so many guys out there with my name, that they get multiple entries, whereas even armed with personal info nI would never put on line, I cant even find myself. I have been told by a few that since they cant find me online, they wont date me.
Sad, but I cant help that, sigh!


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
7/17/2018 6:43 pm

 I wish I had met you while I lived in DC, maybe neither of us would still be searching?


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/17/2018 6:49 pm

 omg...i hear you...that experience is horrible...although i don't get that much bad ones, except i got stood up for numerous times and few ghosting, some of your experience i can totally relate...but don't give up...

anyway...i am sorry but i just realized you have sent me message before...i jsut replied to you...hope you are not mad at me...


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/17/2018 7:07 pm

 sweartogawd I'm laughing WITH you!!!! Your writing is great! I think I went out with most of those guy's upstate cousins!

The separate check thing... probably arranged by some kind of "regular" signal ahead of time. I still remember feeling like wait-a-minute when it happened to me.

And then there's just the assholes who seem to want to make an effort NOT to get laid. Seriously, if a woman works in the education field, why on earth would a dude who wants to get into her pants, go on a 20 minute diatribe against teachers and how they're the problem with kids today!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/18/2018 2:45 am

 Holy crap. You do have a way with words. I have taken a meet sabbatical here for a year. And I thought maybe I am just being difficult or weird. After reading that, I now feel I am being smart. I may never meet anyone here again. I do admire your stamina and perseverance.


ironman2769 58M  
12877 posts
7/18/2018 4:04 am

 I was quite amused as I read your analysis of the type of guys you've met.

My favorite i think is the gift card guy......
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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/18/2018 1:09 pm

 Interesting to say the least.
I can't see the point of lying because it's obvious we'll get found out sooner than later.
I've always been straight! That's not always worked though.


scottj55555 55M
1987 posts
7/18/2018 3:57 pm

 Wow, I mean I know these people are out there and sadly in great numbers, but I can't fathom treating someone that way when you've agreed to meet specifically to get to know each other and are in a one on one situation. Height of rudeness. I mean you don't want someone who hasn't had a job in a decade, but to place the only value on money, is uncouth.


sandiego1955 68M
179 posts
7/24/2018 3:02 pm

 I read your comments, and I have to interject. I have had many of what you said and much more happen to me. This is not just a "Male thing". Women do it just as well. I have had women misrepresent themselves, lie, cheat, attempt to "blackmail" (that was a good one) tell me I was the one all wrong, etc. I have been "stood up". I even had one, that showed up at the restaurant, ducked out, and said she was never there, even after I saw her! There are a lot of "dirt bags" out there, and you run across them on AdultFriendFinder. But this is not exclusively MEN! Rather then being upset, I choose to move on, and considered it their loss! That's they way you need to approach it. What good does it do to remain, angry, bitter and upset? I can understand that being the initial reaction, but why let them win? The best thing you can do (and I do) is move on! Let them deal with their insecurities, issues and hang ups. We both have more important things to do!


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