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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
5/21/2018 4:36 pm

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northernFWB 58M
28 posts
5/21/2018 6:04 pm

Very nice post and Yes... Many times in my life I could have used that rewind and reset button. But life goes on and we try to learn from our mistakes.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/21/2018 7:01 pm

Ya know, earlier today another woman posted this - Because Your Support Means EverythingDealing With Anxiety
Maybe it's applicable for you.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
5/21/2018 8:13 pm

I have done much to destroy my life, but every mistake I made and every wrong turn I've taken has lead me to where I am now. Am I where I want to be? No. I still think of the what ifs, but every scenario destroys the parts of my life I truly enjoy, my wonderful kids and amazing grandchildren. I regret not joining the military, I regret getting locked up, getting married the 3rd time and many more. I've had it all and lost it all, drank fine wine and eaten out of dumpsters. I still go through periods of self destruction, kind of in that mode now. I know I'll snap out of it, I have to if I'm going to make that move to Florida that I didn't make back in the late 70s. I wonder if that job at Ron Jon surf shop is still available.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/21/2018 8:34 pm

It's an interesting thought but we could never be
sure that going back is a guaranteed fix.I have
to believe that's why we can't.

Sounds like you did really good for 16 and 19 years.
Maybe the answer lies is in going after some
much younger guys!At least they wouldn't remind
you of what you left behind.They have plenty
of time to be better,be more and even
resist changes.

Using more than all the road!


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
5/22/2018 11:10 am

I've had two situations in my life where the life was just being sucked out of everything I had because of arseholes, and I had to just push them out of my life. One was a business partner, he got some of the spoils he didn't deserve, I got my life back. The other was a close family member, I just had to exclude her from my life for a while, take myself out of it in fact, until I got it back into perspective, and at the same time I came to the realisation that everyone else already had it/her/ the situation in perspective.

With the benefit of that hindsight, I wouldn't let myself be drawn into such a thing again. Now, as soon as I see signs, I back off......life is far too short to let people steal it away from you.

Good luck.......


ironman2769 58M  
12877 posts
5/26/2018 3:09 am

Hitting the rewind button.....is the same as hindsight being 20/20. Its not always clear what path the chose until perhaps its too late.

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