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Dirty Pictures And Trust  

New2Midlo 54M
653 posts
5/18/2018 5:07 pm

Last Read:
6/23/2018 12:14 pm

Dirty Pictures And Trust

Being on this site, it's more likely than not that there are at least a few pictures of you in which you're sans clothing and/or involved in a sex act. These may have been taken by you or a partner, current or previous. Regardless of who took what, there are almost certainly some of those photos in the possession of a partner, again current or past.

The question that's been rolling around in my head is whether you're comfortable with the other party having those photos in their possession. Do you trust them to not share without your permission? Could there be a jilted lover in your past who you're concerned may post your pictures far and wide? Perhaps they know some of your colleagues and in a drunken rage, your dirty photos find their way into your office?

For clarification, I'm referring to pictures that include faces, where the subject can be clearly identified. Photos of only breasts or genitals only don't count, because our identities aren't exposed in those. Like many other men, I've got a number of photos of previous partners in highly compromising positions and I often wonder how concerned they are those pictures won't wind up on a website somewhere. If I asked, I know the response would be 'well, I am now!' So I'm asking here.

I'm not asking how much or little you'd care, were your pictures circulated without your permission. This is purely a question of trust.

How much do you trust the partners who possess compromising photos of you to not share them without your permission?
I trust my lovers to do the right thing and keep our pictures between us.
I'm a bit worried, but not about anyone in particular.
There's someone I was with; it wouldn't be out of character for them to try to hurt me that way.
I lose sleep at night, because people can be so hurtful. Thanks for reminding me, asshole.


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
5/18/2018 5:07 pm

This one's mostly for the ladies.


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
5/18/2018 11:07 pm

There was one asshole who I know showed my pics to his new lover, as she was able to email me in a fit of jealousy and comment on them. I never trusted him after that.
I DO however trust Steve and Mr Oct with anything I show or send them. I have sent Steve many pics that include my face, as he has with me as well. I most likely would never trust anyone else new though.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
5/19/2018 12:09 am

I have a very small circle of friends/people I play with, and those I trust. Anyone else outside of that, that's a hell no. I used to be a little less concerned with it, thinking it's not such a big deal. Well, guess what, it is. Ive had a few ex partners share my compromising photos before and that was a disaster.
Got in trouble at work more than once, and had a few people just act like pricks towards me, both in and out of work before. So yeah, I'm a lot more weary these days.


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
5/20/2018 7:38 pm

It seems the overwhelming majority of folks mostly trust those who have possession of naughty photos of them. Honestly, I thought there would be more concern, but perhaps chalk that up to being a bit choosy about who you share with.

Thanks to all for voting.


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
5/21/2018 9:28 am

I take most of my own pics except for the ones that are sexual and I trust the guys who take them

LadyTeddieBear


markdaviesm25 38M
5 posts
5/23/2018 2:52 pm

Shouldn't do it at all.


Jvalen257 34M

6/3/2018 7:17 pm

Etreatpeople how u want to be treated


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